The Importance of Self Care to Leadership Resilience
What if the secret to stronger leadership isn't just about being tougher, but about being kinder—especially to yourself? On this episode of Leadership Horizons, I challenge the conventional wisdom around resilience that exclusively focuses on grit and perseverance.When leaders talk about resilience, they often emphasize toughness while overlooking the transformative power of self-care and self-compassion. Through compelling stories like Michael's—a director whose relentless drive nearly derailed a major transformation until he embraced self-kindness—I reveal how sustainable leadership requires more than just pushing through. Michael learned that treating himself with compassion wasn't soft; it was strategic. As he established boundaries and replaced harsh self-criticism with understanding, his energy, clarity, and creativity flourished, enabling him to lead his team with renewed effectiveness..The research is clear: leaders who practice self-care demonstrate higher cognitive flexibility, better decision-making under pressure, and greater longevity in challenging roles. Contrary to concerns that prioritizing wellbeing might signal reduced commitment, the evidence shows self-care creates the foundation for ambitious, sustainable achievement. I outline four essential connections between self-care and leadership resilience: preventing burnout, enabling peak performance, creating psychological safety, and enhancing adaptability—especially critical in our rapidly changing world. From the healthcare leader who developed a 60-second emotional regulation practice to the crisis management expert who maintained her self-care rituals during organizational emergencies, these practical examples demonstrate how small investments in wellbeing yield extraordinary leadership returns.What self-care practice have you been neglecting that needs to become non-negotiable?Try noticing your self-talk this week and offering yourself the same kindness you'd extend to a valued colleague. Your capacity for resilience isn't infinite—it must be intentionally replenished. When you make your wellbeing a priority, you don't just transform your leadership; you model sustainable high performance for your entire organization. Leadership Horizons - Helping You Lead Beyond Boundaries
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Leading with Love and Joy
What happens when leaders dare to bring love and joy into their professional toolkit? This thought-provoking journey explores how genuine care and purposeful enthusiasm are becoming essential elements for today's most effective leaders—not just nice-to-haves.The traditional corporate world has long conditioned us to keep emotions separate from business decisions. Many senior leaders still view concepts like "leading with love" as too soft for the boardroom. But what if this represents a fundamental misunderstanding that's limiting organizational potential? Through compelling stories and practical insights, we discover how leading with love means creating psychological safety, seeing the full humanity in each team member, and genuinely caring about their growth—all while maintaining focus on results.Meet Joanna, an executive who chose to lead with love during a difficult restructuring. Rather than maintaining professional distance when faced with resistance and even personal attacks, she doubled down on transparency, genuine care, and connection. The outcome wasn't just a smoother transition but renewed trust that continues to pay dividends. Similarly, when leaders reconnect with their sense of purpose and joy, it transforms their energy and ripples throughout the organization, fostering innovation and engagement even during challenging times.Ready to integrate these approaches into your leadership? Try deep listening in your next one-on-one (aim for 80% listening, 20% speaking), create conditions where everyone can develop their strengths, celebrate progress alongside outcomes, bring your authentic self to work, and prioritize meaningful connection in our digital world. These practices don't replace addressing difficult issues—they provide a stronger foundation for navigating challenges effectively. When team members know you genuinely care about their success, they're more likely to receive feedback as helpful rather than threatening. The future belongs to leaders who don't choose between effectiveness and humanity but skillfully integrate both. What might your leadership look like if you approached it with more love and joy?Leadership Horizons - Helping You Lead Beyond Boundaries
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Becoming an Authentic Leader: The Power of Full Commitment
What's the pivotal moment that transforms someone from simply holding a leadership position to truly becoming a leader? Drawing on 25 years of executive coaching experience, I reveal the single most important choice every impactful leader must make – the conscious decision to fully commit to leadership responsibility. Throughout my career across criminal justice, retail, and higher education sectors before founding Lois Burton Limited in 2000, I've observed that exceptional leadership never happens by accident. This episode explores the profound difference between managing (which focuses on tasks, processes, and systems) and leading (which centers on influence, vision, and developing others). We examine what full commitment really means – accepting complete responsibility for your people's development, embracing vulnerability as strength, and dedicating yourself to continuous growth.I share practical, actionable steps to help you fully commit to your leadership journey: defining your personal leadership purpose as your North Star, creating a specific development plan with scheduled time for growth, building a robust support system of mentors and accountability partners, and establishing regular self-reflection practices. Most importantly, we discuss how leadership commitment manifests as a daily choice that builds trust through consistency. Ready to move beyond your title and embody true leadership? Take our leadership presence quiz by clicking on the link below: https://lois-burton-online.kit.com/16e95c98e1 or at https://loisburtononline.com to evaluate how you currently show up as a leader and identify your next growth opportunities. Your team deserves your full commitment, and the leader you're capable of becoming is waiting for you to make this choice.Leadership Horizons - Helping You Lead Beyond Boundaries
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Dr Lloyd Gregory Shares His Leadership Insights
The power of collaboration lies at the heart of transformative leadership, and Dr. Lloyd Gregory's approach offers a masterclass in building partnerships that create lasting value. As Director of the Joint Research Office for King's College London and Guy's and St Thomas' NHS Foundation Trust, Lloyd brings unique perspective on uniting different organizational cultures toward common goals.Lloyd's ten-point framework for effective collaboration provides practical wisdom that any leader can apply. Beginning with trust as the foundation, he outlines how transparent communication, balanced leadership approaches, cultural respect, and formal agreements create the infrastructure for successful partnerships. What makes his insights particularly valuable is his emphasis on both the human and structural elements—recognizing that while relationships matter deeply, they must be supported by clear agreements, consistent messaging, and data-driven approaches.Perhaps most refreshing is Lloyd's honest approach to leadership challenges. Rather than presenting collaboration as effortless, he acknowledges that partnerships require continual work and humility. "I've made mistakes along the way and I've learned from them," he shares candidly, demonstrating how vulnerability strengthens rather than diminishes leadership credibility. His willingness to name mistakes and share lessons learned models the emotional intelligence he identifies as crucial for modern leadership.Looking toward the future, Lloyd highlights how leaders must balance digital fluency with human-centered approaches. From embracing AI and machine learning to creating psychologically safe workspaces where diverse perspectives thrive, tomorrow's effective leaders will need to navigate constant change while maintaining purpose-driven focus. His insights serve as both challenge and roadmap for anyone seeking to harness the power of meaningful collaboration in increasingly complex environments.Join us for this illuminating conversation that bridges theory and practice, offering tangible strategies for building partnerships that transform organizations and deliver exceptional outcomes. Whether you're navigating healthcare, academia, or any complex organizational landscape, these insights will enhance your collaborative leadership toolkit.Leadership Horizons - Helping You Lead Beyond Boundaries
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Creating and Prioritising Development Opportunities for Leaders and Teams
Every transformative leader shares a common trait—commitment to continuous growth. Great leadership isn't static; what worked yesterday won't necessarily lead us successfully into tomorrow. The relentless pace of change demands adaptation, yet many leaders struggle to prioritize development amid operational pressures and budget constraints. Drawing from over two decades coaching senior executives, I explore how the most successful leaders integrate development seamlessly into their leadership practice. They don't view learning as separate from leading—they recognize every challenge, interaction, success, and failure as an opportunity to expand their capabilities. This episode unpacks three powerful development approaches that require more intentionality than financial investment. We examine how coaching creates a confidential space for honest exploration and strategic thinking, with one CEO describing it as "the most valuable hour in my month." I share how mentoring relationships leverage collective wisdom, particularly through mentoring circles that build cross-functional understanding without significant time commitments from senior leaders. For those seeking immediate action, self-directed development offers accessible growth opportunities through consistent small actions—from 10-minute daily reflections to podcasts and targeted reading. The key isn't occasional intensive efforts but establishing reflective practices that maximize learning from everyday experiences. Beyond personal growth, we explore practical strategies for creating a development culture within your team—from modeling vulnerability about your own learning journey to integrating development discussions into regular team rhythms and celebrating growth when team members apply new approaches. Leadership development isn't just about becoming better at what you do—it's about expanding what you're capable of doing. Block 30 minutes in your calendar this week for reflection, identify one skill to strengthen, and create a simple mechanism for sharing learning within your team. Remember: meaningful development doesn't require extensive programs, just commitment, consistency, and the courage to step outside your comfort zone. Leadership Horizons - Helping You Lead Beyond Boundaries
This podcast aims to help leaders understand current and future leadership trends and encourage leaders to explore their horizons and understand the skills that will help them become even more successful moving forward.Welcome to Leadership Horizons, where we explore leadership at its most transformative through two unique perspectives. I am Lois Burton, an executive coach and leadership development specialist and I've witnessed first hand how great leadership can transform organizations across sectors - from global corporations to public services, from manufacturing to the arts. "Each week, I'll bring you either an in-depth conversation with a visionary leader who's redefining what's possible...""...or be inviting you to join me for focused explorations of critical leadership themes, where I'll share proven strategies and insights from my years of leadership development experience and research.""Leadership Horizons, helping you to lead beyond boundaries -- Because the future of leadership knows no bounds. I'm looking forward to you joining me there"