What if the biggest driver of your leadership isn’t your strategy, but your circle?
This week, Lois unpacks the quiet decision that shapes your confidence, creativity, and speed: who you keep closest when the stakes are high. Drawing on years of coaching alongside pioneers like Sir John Whitmore and deep research on psychological safety, we explore how your environment programs your expectations and why no one truly thrives in isolation.
We start with a candid story of a senior director whose brilliance was dulled by a chorus of yes but. From there, we move into the neuroscience of co-regulation and how emotions, beliefs, and energy spread through teams.
Lois explains why the leaders who outperform over time curate three non-negotiable roles in their inner circle: the Champion who holds your vision when you wobble, the Challenger who tells you the truth you need to hear, and the Energizer who sends you back into the arena more alive and more yourself.
You’ll get a practical, fast exercise to recalibrate your network: a two-column leadership circle audit that treats relationships as data. Identify who expands you and who quietly shrinks your ambition. Then make deliberate choices—deepen the ties that raise your game, set clean boundaries with the voices that drain you, and seek out the roles you’re missing.
Along the way we connect the dots between trust, candor, and better decisions, showing how a balanced circle compounds into smarter bets and faster growth.
We close with an invitation to become that person in someone else’s circle: celebrate without envy, challenge without sting, and bring energy that travels.
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