North Star Conversations | Unlock Your Potential, Performance & Purpose

Originally aired: August 2025
Episode Number: 251
Success leaves clues. Instead of figuring everything out on your own, learn from the best, take action, and build the habits that lead to extraordinary results.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, seasoned Wall Street veteran and mentor Barry Garapedian shares how studying top performers helped him become a leading wealth manager and build a successful career. Learn how to learn from people who are already achieving what you want, build confidence through small daily wins, turn failure into valuable lessons, and focus on consistent actions rather than results alone.
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Originally aired: August 2025
Episode Number: 247
Sometimes, the key to creating the life you want is to let go of pressure and start becoming the person you want to be.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, manifestation coach and author Esther McCann shares how to consciously create a life you love by shifting your mindset, releasing limiting beliefs, and taking small, intentional steps towards your goals. Learn how journaling, practising gratitude, and daily reflection can build self-awareness, reduce resistance, and help you move towards your desired future with greater confidence and ease.
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Originally aired: July 2025
Episode Number: 246
Financial freedom means little if you have no purpose or control over your own life.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, entrepreneur, investor, and author of "Always Free" Jason Graystone delves into the three freedoms: freedom of mind, money, and movement. Discover why financial independence alone doesn't guarantee fulfilment, how other people's expectations can pull you away from what matters, and why understanding yourself is the first step towards creating a life of genuine freedom and purpose.
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Originally aired: July 2025
Episode Number: 244
Real growth begins when you stop blaming your team, identify where you need to improve, and learn how to bring out the best in others.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, personal development legend and author of Average Sucks Michael Bernoff explores the mindset shift required to become a more mature business owner, build a stronger team, and communicate in a way that inspires people to improve. Discover why admitting what you're not good at can unlock growth, how to turn employees into a voluntary army, and why effective communication starts with knowing the response you want to create.
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Episode Notes
In this episode, I sit down with Paul Avins, a scale-up strategist who has spent over 20 years helping more than a thousand business owners break the £1 million revenue line. We talk about how we met on Clubhouse, the network marketing event that started his personal development journey, and how being adopted left him angry and asking "what's wrong with me?" until he made peace with it. Paul shares what it was like to build a 450-person company by 26 and lose the money within weeks of selling. He breaks down the milestones from 1 to 5 to 10 million, why identity (owner, not operator) comes first, and why you should know your "number" before you chase an exit. He also tells the story behind his trademark purple and the cardiac arrest that changed how he sees contribution.
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Video Chapters
00:00 - Introduction: meeting on Clubhouse
00:57 - Loneliness and the resurgence of community
02:49 - Why running a business is lonely, and why events matter
04:33 - Human connection as the new currency
06:11 - The network marketing meeting that started it all
07:49 - "Invest 10% of everything you earn back in you"
08:58 - The policeman neighbor who made a fortune
10:01 - Learning from tapes in the car, and a £1M business in 18 months
12:30 - Being adopted, and the American twang
14:37 - The books that changed his thinking
15:59 - How adoption shaped his drive: "What's wrong with me?"
17:43 - Timeline therapy and making peace with it
19:58 - The fear of the cold, and the abandonment pattern
22:13 - Scaling to 450 people by 26, and selling at 29
23:37 - Losing the money in seven weeks
23:55 - Discovering business coaching at the franchise show
25:23 - Ten days of intense training in Australia
27:25 - The volleyball lesson: celebrating before the game
31:49 - Why only 7% of businesses pass £1M
32:32 - Niche, selling, and the irresistible offer
34:40 - Selling vs. marketing
36:01 - Falling conversion: fix the offer, not the ad spend
37:23 - Which conversion rate? The 3% revelation
38:44 - Leading vs. lagging indicators
41:56 - The Grown Up Business framework: level up
43:07 - The £35,000 decision made without data
44:17 - Testing demand before launching the AI event
45:58 - Never take a bet that could end the game
47:38 - The scale-up milestones: 1 to 3 to 5
48:49 - The "profit sandwich" squeezing business owners
50:43 - Identity: owner, not operator
51:52 - AI, offshoring, and building teams
53:52 - Scaling from 5 to 10: capital, culture, acquisition
56:31 - Team dynamics and the Contribution Compass
59:21 - Do you really want a £50M business?
1:01:15 - "What's Your Number?" and £148M in client exits
1:02:24 - Why timing matters when selling
1:04:12 - Life after the sale: the island analogy
1:07:19 - The story behind the purple
1:11:25 - The cardiac arrest and the paramedic who saved him
1:14:24 - The blue inhaler overdose, and a warning for parents
1:16:55 - From "what can I get" to contribution
1:19:24 - How to connect with Paul
1:20:01 - Final reflection: "What should I stop doing?"
1:21:39 - Stop changing what's already working
1:22:17 - Closing remarks
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Relevant Links For the Viewer and Citations
Website - https://www.willpolston.com
Instagram - https://instagram.com/willpolston
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willpolstonmih
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/willpolston/
Twitter / X - https://x.com/willpolston
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@willpolston
Connect with Paul on LinkedIn: search "Paul Avins"
Scale Up Coaching (events, retreats, one-day accelerators, free courses): https://www.scaleupcoaching.com/
Paul's website: https://paulavins.com
About Me: I am dedicated to helping individuals and businesses unlock their true potential through expert coaching and training programs. I'm passionate about empowering others to achieve their dreams and live a life they love. Subscribe for more insights and tips on personal development, productivity, and achieving your goals. Let's embark on this journey together!