North Star Conversations | Unlock Your Potential, Performance & Purpose

Originally aired: August 2023
Episode Number: 149
Failure isn't always about what didn't work—it's often about how you choose to define it.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, award-winning entrepreneur, mental health nurse and racing car driver Daniel Wylie explores the difference between being a failure and experiencing failure, and how that distinction shapes resilience and growth. Find out how shifting your perspective, focusing on progress over perfection, and practising gratitude can change not just how you view setbacks—but how you move forward from them.
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Originally aired: May 2023
Episode Number: 148
True success often comes down to what you choose to carry, how you move, and how you treat others.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, founder of One Golden Nugget Steven Foster reflects on three powerful lessons drawn from years of interviews: the importance of letting go of baggage, moving through life with patience and steady momentum, and understanding that real happiness comes from kindness rather than money or status. Find out how releasing what weighs you down, trusting the process, and leading with compassion can create a more grounded and fulfilling life.
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Originally aired: May 2023
Episode Number: 147
Wealth isn't just built through strategy. It's shaped by the beliefs you carry about money.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, Founder & CEO of MindSpace Coaching Mac Attram explores how deeply ingrained narratives—often picked up in childhood—can quietly limit your ability to create and hold wealth. Discover how shifting your mindset, getting clear on what you truly want, and redefining your relationship with money can open the door to greater financial potential.
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Originally aired: April 2023
Episode Number: 146
The moments that shape us most are often the ones we barely notice, until they start holding us back.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, multi-award-winning professional therapist, coach, hypnotist, author, and speaker Danny Greeves delves into how a single experience of embarrassment can create lasting patterns of fear, avoidance, and self-doubt. Learn how bringing these hidden patterns into awareness—and actively reshaping them—can change your emotional responses, unlock confidence, and allow you to express yourself more freely in every area of life.
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Episode Notes
Hostage Negotiator: How To Win Any High-Stakes Conversation, Instantly Gain Trust & Turn Enemies Into Allies! - Scott Walker | EP269
In this episode, I sat down with Scott Walker, a world-leading negotiator and bestselling author, who has led over 300 kidnap-for-ransom negotiations across the globe. We dove deep into the psychology of high-stakes conversations, the power of curiosity, practical tools for emotional regulation, and the art of building trust in even the most critical moments. You'll discover frameworks for navigating business and personal negotiations, learn from gripping real-life stories, and pick up actionable techniques for better communication under pressure.
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Video Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:01 - Welcoming Scott and Initial Reflections
00:49 - The Stakes of Crisis Negotiation
01:41 - Do Negotiators Always Get What They Want?
03:09 - Scott's Early Career and Inspiration
04:52 - Lessons from Interrogation and Curiosity as a Superpower
06:45 - From Hostage Negotiator to Bestselling Author
08:47 - Negotiation as Everyday Life: Collaboration and Cooperation
10:42 - The Business of Long-Term Relationships
11:42 - Scott's First High-Stakes Negotiation Story
15:12 - Lessons Learned: Emotional Self-Regulation
16:25 - Internal Politics vs. External Crisis
17:01 - Tools for Emotional Regulation in High-Pressure Moments
19:26 - The "Immediate Action Drill" for Difficult Conversations
21:19 - The Power of Buying Time
22:19 - The Role of Trust in Negotiation
23:01 - Framework of Negotiation: Data, Trust, Problem-Solving
24:13 - 93% Success Rate in Hostage Negotiation
25:17 - Building and Demonstrating Trust (for Both Sides)
27:07 - Navigating Loss Aversion and Holding Boundaries
30:31 - Embracing Challenging Conversations for Better Outcomes
31:41 - The Spectrum of Negotiation Approaches
32:00 - Decreasing Increases: The Tactical Approach
33:40 - Reading Underlying Needs: Identity and Saving Face
34:11 - The Importance (and Difficulty) of Level 5 Listening
35:39 - Point of View and Empathy Loops
38:43 - Using "Deliberate Mistakes" to Reveal Truths
39:53 - Where to Learn More: Scott's Books and Courses
40:51 - The Biggest Mistake in High-Stakes Conversation
41:47 - The "Bunch of Fives" Preparation Technique
43:39 - Why Emotional Regulation Wins (Michael Phelps Example)
44:30 - Blind Spots for Business Leaders Under Pressure
45:56 - Articulating Identity and Status in Difficult Talks
46:29 - Trust as a Pillar: How Long Does It Take to Build?
47:02 - The Longest and Shortest Negotiations
48:24 - A Case That Stays with Scott: Lessons in Resilience
49:40 - Influence of Tony Robbins on Scott's Approach
54:15 - Greatest Learnings: State Management and Worthy Opponents
55:17 - Tools for Rapid State Change
57:53 - Micro-Transitions Between High-Pressure Moments
59:37 - Daily Practices for Mindful Transitions
61:21 - The Case Scott Still Thinks About at 2am
69:56 - What You'll Learn from Scott's Books
71:12 - Scott's North Star and Advice to the Next Generation
73:08 - Final Reflections & Call to Action
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Relevant Links For the Viewer and Citations
Website - https://www.willpolston.com
Instagram - https://instagram.com/willpolston
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willpolstonmih
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/willpolston/
Twitter / X - https://x.com/willpolston
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@willpolston
Check out Red Centre Global's website here: https://www.redcentreglobal.com/
Scott's online course for Negotiation: https://www.negotiation-mastery.com/
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