North Star Conversations | Unlock Your Potential, Performance & Purpose

Originally aired: March 2023
Episode Number: 145
Many of the limits we experience aren't external. They're shaped by the identity we've learned to hold onto.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, transformational speaker and best-selling author Kute Blackson explores how ego and conditioning can trap us in patterns that restrict growth, and what shifts when you begin to see life through a deeper lens. Discover how surrendering rigid identities, questioning learned beliefs, and reconnecting with a more authentic self can transform not just how you see life—but how you experience it.
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Originally aired: November 2022
Episode Number: 144
Resilience isn't just about pushing forward. It's about learning to live with what you've lost, while still finding meaning in what remains.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, South African champion para surfer, competitive swimmer and professional speaker Caleb Swanepoel explores the emotional and physical realities of life after losing a limb—from missing the simple, everyday moments most people take for granted, to navigating the ongoing challenges of pain, adaptation, and recovery. Learn how embracing the highs and lows, and continuing to show up despite limitations, becomes its own form of strength.
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https://kite.link/calebswanepoel

Episode Notes
The Life Transformation Coach: Why Most Diets & Fitness Plans Fail, How Limiting Beliefs Sabotage Success & The ONLY Way To Create Lasting Change with your Health and Fitness! - Kirk Miller | EP268
In this inspiring conversation, I sit down with Kirk Miller, renowned coach and founder of Built to Last, as he shares his journey from aspiring professional footballer to leading expert in personal transformation. We explore Kirk's pivotal life moments, how overcoming self-doubt and environmental limitations shaped his path, and the essential pillars he uses to help others create lasting change. Discover practical strategies for unlocking your true potential and living a more complete, purpose-driven life.
Don't miss the opportunity to take the first step towards a more fulfilling life. Book your complimentary clarity call today and discover how Will Polston can help you achieve the success you deserve. 💡 https://willpolston.com/book-a-call/
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Video Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:01 - Welcoming Kirk Miller
00:08 - Kirk's Dubai/London Hybrid Lifestyle
00:16 - Will's Fitness Journey with Kirk
00:56 - Kirk's Early Life and Football Dreams in Coventry
01:28 - The Path to Joining Coventry & Manchester United Opportunity
03:01 - Pivotal Life Choices at Age 13
05:02 - Being Released by Coventry at Age 20 & Identity Loss
06:43 - Retraining as a Plumber and Struggles with Self-Confidence
07:30 - Entering the Men's Health Cover Competition
08:55 - Childhood Limitations and the Specialist's Prediction
10:00 - The Impact of Authority on Life Scripts
11:15 - The Real Reason for Not Taking Big Opportunities
11:42 - Winning Men's Health & Pursuing Passion
13:16 - Building 'Built to Last': Team, Community, and Life Mission
15:15 - Internal vs. External Confidence and Happiness
16:22 - Kirk's Battle with Emotional Insecurity & Life After Men's Health
18:57 - Creating Lasting Change: Growth Beyond Physical Success
20:00 - Filling the Gap Between Reality & What You Want
21:07 - The Six Pillars of Built to Last
21:51 - Purpose as the Foundation for Growth
22:18 - Structure for All Seasons & Lifestyle Management
23:50 - Physical and Emotional Confidence
25:43 - Emotional Confidence: Self-Belief and Habits
26:43 - Perseverance: Resilience During Tough Times
27:31 - High Performance Environment & Peer Groups
29:58 - Influence of Environment on Identity and Success
31:06 - Internal vs. External Energy; Living in Alignment
32:09 - Will's Personal Fitness Story & Lessons Learned
34:09 - Reducing Friction, Accountability, and Marginal Gains
36:05 - High Community Standards Without Comparisons
37:26 - Personalized Growth and Setting Your Own Standards
38:10 - Adapting to Seasons of Life (Parenthood, Business, etc.)
40:14 - Personalized Food Strategy for Entrepreneurs
42:31 - Managing Progress with Flexibility
44:30 - Comparing Yourself Only to Yourself
45:00 - The Emotional Catch-up After Rapid Change
49:06 - Keeping Promises to Yourself & Long-Term Consistency
51:10 - How to Connect with Kirk Miller
51:51 - The One Question Kirk Wishes More Would Ask
53:20 - Removing Limiting Beliefs for a Complete Life
53:32 - Final Thoughts and Call to Action
54:04 - Closing Remarks
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Relevant Links For the Viewer and Citations
Website - https://www.willpolston.com
Instagram - https://instagram.com/willpolston
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willpolstonmih
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/willpolston/
Twitter / X - https://x.com/willpolston
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@willpolston
Check out Kirk Millers website here: https://kirkmiller.co.uk/
Follow Kirk on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/kirkmiller_/
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Originally aired: November 2022
Episode Number: 143
Success rarely comes from having a perfect plan; it comes from taking action and adjusting along the way.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, award-winning businessman, TEDx speaker and CEO/Founder of EnSpirit Global Baiju Solanki explores how opportunities emerge through action, why preparation creates "luck," and how consistent effort—guided by a bigger vision—outperforms short-term thinking. Discover how you can stay adaptable, commit to the process, and build momentum even when the path ahead isn't fully clear.
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Originally aired: October 2022
Episode Number: 142
Fear is often less about reality, and more about how we perceive risk.
In this episode highlight of North Star Conversations with Will Polston, South African mountaineer Cathy O'Dowd explains how structured training, repeated exposure, and real-world application build sharper judgment and greater confidence under pressure. Explore why avoiding discomfort and staying in familiar territory can limit growth, and how deliberately stepping into challenge—while reflecting and refining your approach—can fundamentally change how you respond to fear.
Listen to the full episode here:
https://kite.link/cathyodowd