Agony Aunties on Finding Confidence in Your Fifties
In this episode, the Agony Aunties address a listener's concern about feeling invisible in their mid-fifties due to ageism in both work and social spaces. Reflecting on their own experiences, the Agony Aunties discuss the psychological challenges and societal biases that come with aging, particularly for women. They emphasise the importance of valuing oneself, embracing inner strengths, and finding liberation in this new phase of life. They also touch upon the cultural obsession with anti-aging and all the benefits of reaching one's fifties. Please subscribe and leave a review—it truly makes all the difference!
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Olivia on Finding Freedom After Abuse
In this episode of the Therapy Works podcast, Olivia shares the harrowing experience of her husband being arrested in 2014 for downloading and sharing paedophilic images of children. She discusses the subsequent impact on her life and her four children, detailing the years of coercive control, emotional abuse, and manipulation she endured during her marriage. Olivia reflects on the therapy and support she received that helped her come to terms with the situation, reclaim her sense of self, and start to rebuild her life. Despite the trauma, Olivia speaks of her path to freedom, the crucial role of her support system, and how she managed to rebuild a life filled with joy and self-discovery.
00:12 The Day Everything Changed
01:22 Living Under Coercive Control
05:10 Realisations Through Therapy
10:19 The Arrest and Its Aftermath
14:14 Struggles with Shame and Guilt
31:30 Support Systems and Healing
37:46 Reflections and Moving Forward
Support Links & Further Resources
Understanding the Vagus Nerve – Learn more via the Polyvagal Institute
Carolyn Spring – Resources on trauma and recovery: carolynspring.com
Women’s Aid – Support for those affected by domestic abuse: womensaid.org.uk
Support for Families & Friends of Perpetrators – Guidance via the Survivors’ Network: Read here
Dr. Gwen Adshead: Reith Lecture – Listen on the BBC: Episode link
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Agony Aunties on Managing Exam Stress
In this episode, the Agony Aunties discuss the intense pressure and anxiety faced by a 16-year-old dealing with exam stress. They highlight the importance of timetables that include breaks and exercise, the benefits of studying with friends, and the significance of sleep, food, and exercise in reducing anxiety. Additionally, the conversation explores emotional coping mechanisms, the dangers of self-imposed pressure, the impact of comparing oneself to others, and the importance of recognising one's worth beyond academic performance. Real-life anecdotes and practical advice provide a comprehensive guide to managing stress and finding balance during exam periods.
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Chris Levine on How Darkness Led Him to Light
In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Julia reconnects with world-famous light artist Chris Levine - best known for his portraits of the Queen, Kate Moss, and Elton John - for the first time in over a decade. Chris opens up about his personal battles, from growing up with a father struggling with alcoholism to facing his own challenges with addiction. He shares how these experiences shaped not only his journey of recovery, but also his unique creative path.
Together, they explore how meditation, energy, and a deep connection to a higher power have become central to both his healing and his art. Chris also talks about his fascination with sacred sites, cosmic energy, and the magic of light that continues to inspire his incredible work. This is an intimate and moving conversation about resilience, creativity, and finding peace through stillness.
02:31 The Impact of Addiction
06:04 Artistic Journey and Addiction
08:21 Recovery and Self-Realisation
11:24 Balancing Heart and Mind
17:44 The Role of Higher Power in Recovery
20:29 Expressing Through Art and Meditation
21:35 A Life-Changing Journey to Kathmandu
22:16 Discovering Vipassana Meditation
23:16 The Power of Stillness and Meditation
24:07 Creating Art Through Meditation
27:21 Manifesting Dreams and Serendipity
38:54 The Spiritual Significance of Sacred Sites
42:19 Reflections on Meditation and Creativity
Find out more about Chris Levine: https://chrislevine.com/
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Agony Aunties on the Struggle to Maintain Friendships in Adulthood
The Agony Aunties respond to a listener question about the difficulties of making, keeping, and spending time with friends, emphasising the importance of deep friendships in their life. They mention the challenges posed by frequent moves and busy schedules, particularly in the context of having children and seeking affordable, spacious homes. The speaker acknowledges that many people share this experience and struggle to maintain close connections with their supportive friends due to these factors.
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Bestselling author and psychotherapist, Julia Samuel, invites us into her therapy room as she talks to both known and unknown voices about some of life’s biggest challenges.
Therapy Works is full of therapeutic conversations which may contain difficult emotions but those that can paradoxically bring light, in all its form.
Listeners will hear what the guests have learnt, failed to learn and how they have grown through their experience. At the end of each episode, Julia reflects on her session with her two psychotherapist daughters who will share their thoughts on the conversation. You’ll quickly discover that not all therapists agree on everything!
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