BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

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You are not going to like this one. And if it makes you angry, that is probably a sign you need to hear it.

In this episode Margarita breaks down five things women do completely unintentionally, usually with the best intentions, that quietly push men away. Not the obvious stuff every relationship coach has already told you. The things nobody is saying.

In this episode:
1. Narrating every internal state the second you feel it
2. Mothering him and collapsing the polarity without realising it
3. Making yourself too agreeable, too easy, too cool girl
4. Manufacturing jealousy instead of actually building a full life
5. Needing his validation vs valuing his opinion

Whether you are in the talking stage, a long term relationship that has lost its spark, or a marriage that feels more like flatmates,
one of these five is going to hit home.

This is not about blame. It is about understanding why the dynamic shifts without either of you realising, until he pulls back and you have absolutely no idea what happened.

Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.

Love you lots like jelly tots xx
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You have been warm to everyone. And it has exhausted you.
In this episode Margarita brings back an ancient Slavic wisdom she nearly lost to western society and makes the full case for your
ice queen era. Not cold for the sake of it. Not emotionally shut down. Just deeply discerning about where your warmth actually goes.

Because warmth given to everyone is worth nothing.
And warmth given to the right people changes everything.

In this episode:
1. Warmth is valuable because it is limited
2. Coldness gives you enough distance to see reality
3. An ice queen does not react on impact
4. Being colder means you stop explaining the verdict
5. Stop mothering people who disappoint you
6. You can love someone without giving them access
7. Colder women are harder to manipulate
8. Protected softness is intimacy, unprotected softness is self abandonment
9. The cool girl and the ice queen are not the same thing
10. The goal is not to be Elsa forever, it is to be discerning

If you give your warmth to everyone and get nothing back, if you over explain every boundary until it loses its power, or if you keep
performing warmth even when you are genuinely hurt, this one is for you.

Welcome to the ice queen era.

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They called you bossy. They called you demanding. They called you difficult.

Good.

In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being self led, why women are trained from childhood to outsource their own lives to
other people's comfort, and why the burnout, brain fog and confusion so many women are feeling right now is coming from one place.
You have stopped leading yourself.

In this episode:
1. Self led women know what they want and are not afraid to say it
2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded
3. Being self led is not controlling others it is running your own life
4. Indecisiveness is one of the most expensive things you can do to yourself
5. Confidence looks bossy when people are not used to it
6. Women apologize before they even finish the thought
7. The fear is not of being bossy it is the fear of rejection
8. Every successful woman has been called bossy at some point
9. Someone is always steering your life if it is not you
10. What would you do if nobody was watching and nobody cared

If you say I do not mind so often you have forgotten what you do mind, if you apologize before you even finish the thought, or if you feel like you are living someone else's version of your life, this one is for you bossy girl.

Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.

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Every man's ex is crazy. Have you noticed that?
In this episode Margarita reclaims the word crazy and breaks down why emotional sovereignty is one of the most powerful things a woman can develop, why the cool girl performance is slowly killing you, and why feeling your emotions deeply is not your weakness.

It is your greatest asset.

In this episode:
1. Emotions are information not instructions to act
2. Emotional independence means stopping expecting others to regulate you
3. A regulated woman still cries and still gets angry
4. Stop treating every feeling like an emergency
5. Femininity is not emotional chaos it is leading your own emotions
6. Learn the difference between intuition and activation
7. Peace is not something a man gives you it is something you build
8. Stop outsourcing your self worth
9. Emotional maturity is the most attractive thing you can develop
10. The goal is not crazy amounts of happiness it is stability and joy

If you have been called crazy for having a completely valid reaction, if you suppress your emotions just to seem cool, or if you are handing your emotional regulation to everyone around you, this one is for you.

Welcome to emotional sovereignty.

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You have been trying so hard to be easy. Easy going. Easy to love. No requirements. No fuss.
And yet here you are.

In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being high maintenance and why the women who know what they want, ask for it unapologetically, and refuse to shrink themselves are the ones who get everything.

In this episode:
1. High maintenance is just a person who knows themselves
2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded
3. Low maintenance often becomes emotional dishonesty
4. How can a man meet the needs he does not know exist
5. Stop confusing standards with entitlement
6. The psychology of self silencing and why it kills relationships
7. Your needs are not problems, they are preferences
8. The fear of being high maintenance comes from a scarcity mindset
9. The healthiest women are actually quite specific
10. Stop trying to be easy to love because it does not exist

If you have been making yourself small so people will like you more, pretending to be fine when you are not, or following him around and forgetting to have preferences of your own, this one is for you.

Welcome to the high maintenance club.

Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.
Love you lots like jelly tots xx
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