The Autism Mums Podcast

We're re-releasing another episode from the archives this week where we talk about the practical ways we can help our autistic children with daily life.
We’re sharing some of the things that have helped us make daily life a bit easier with our autistic children. From using timers and visual timetables to experimenting with tooth brushes and finding softer clothing.
These are ideas that have worked for us, they might help you too, or simply offer reassurance that you’re not alone on this journey.
Key Takeaways
Timers and visual supports can help ease transitions by giving your child a sense of control and predictability.
Choosing soft, seamless clothing may make a difference for children who find layers uncomfortable.
Toothbrushing challenges might be eased by trying different tools like U-shaped or triple-angled toothbrushes.
Flexibility is key - what works one day might not work the next, and that’s okay.
Planning days out in advance with visual itineraries can reduce anxiety about what's coming next.
Noise sensitivity might be supported by using ear defenders, earbuds, or listening to favourite music.
Strong smells can sometimes be managed with things like balaclavas or carrying scents like orange oil to mask overwhelming smells.
Having a sensory kit (with familiar snacks, toys, and calming tools) may offer comfort when you're out and about.
Mentioned in This Episode
Here are some of the tools and resources discussed in this episode:
Visual timers
Laminated visual timetables
Seamless/sensory-friendly clothing
U-shaped toothbrush and triple-angled toothbrush
Ear defenders
Bach's Rescue Remedy
Orange Essential Oil
Tiger balm
The Early Birds course by the National Autistic Society
Stretchy resistance bands for calming sensory feedback

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Another episode from the archives this week. We're returning to our episode where we dive into the unique challenges of raising a child with a PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) profile. We're sharing our personal stories, strategies, and reflections to help parents and caregivers better understand and support their children navigating PDA-related behaviours.
Key Takeaways
PDA is driven by anxiety and a need for control; traditional demands can trigger refusal.
Offering controlled choices helps reduce pressure and gives children a sense of agency.
Visual schedules and plenty of preparation help ease transitions and reduce stress.
Managing your own calm and letting go of nonessential demands are important for low-demand parenting.
It’s okay to adjust family routines to what works for your child, even if it looks different from your original parenting ideals.
Misunderstandings from others can be painful but focusing on your child’s needs is what matters most.

Mentioned in This Episode
PDA Society
Dr. Naomi Fisher webinars and resources
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We're returning to the archives again this week to our episode all about EHCP's. We’re talking about the journey to getting an EHCP - what it is, why it matters, and what the process looked like for our families.
We’ll share the lessons we learned along the way with the hope that it helps you navigate the process and feel a little more prepared.
Key Takeaways
An EHCP can provide vital, legally binding support
You don't need a formal diagnosis to apply for an EHCP
Schools may not always initiate an EHCP request. If they don't parents can.
Timelines and deadlines are crucial - keep a track of key dates.
Support groups, SENDIASS and organisations like IPSEA can provide guidance and practical help.
The right provision can make a huge difference to your child's wellbeing.
Mentioned in This Episode
SENDIASS (Special Educational Needs and Disability Information Advice and Support Services)
IPSEA (Independent Provider of Special Education Advice) — ipsea.org.uk
EarlyBird course (National Autistic Society support programme for parents)
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In this week’s encore episode of The Autism Mums Podcast, Victoria reveals the emotional journey of her son’s autism diagnosis. She reflects on the early signs that were often misunderstood and the battles faced in educational settings, culminating in the significant moment of receiving an official diagnosis. As one of our most popular episodes, we wanted to share this again as there are so many on this path to diagnosis.
Key Takeaways
Autism signs can often be masked or misunderstood, especially in young children.
Building a support network of other parents is crucial.
Professionals may miss signs too, trusting your instincts matters.
The diagnosis process can feel long and isolating, but community support makes a difference.
Receiving a diagnosis is often a moment of both relief and grief and that's OK.
Mentioned in This Episode
The Early Birds Course (National Autistic Society)
ASDivas and Dudes Support Group
The Girl with the Curly Hair by Alis Rowe
The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome by Tony Attwood
TADDS Outreach Team
Total Children's Therapy
ADOS-2 Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule
CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services)
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In this week’s encore episode of The Autism Mums Podcast, we are revisiting our look into the journey toward an autism diagnosis. Natalie opens up about her experiences with her son, reflecting on the subtle early signs and the drawn-out process of seeking support.
Key Takeaways
Early signs aren't always obvious: It's common to realize things only in hindsight.
Not all settings impact children the same way: Different environments can highlight or mask challenges.
The path to diagnosis is often long: Waiting times can be frustrating, but support exists even before official diagnoses.
Grief is a natural part of acceptance: It's okay to mourn the loss of expectations while embracing a new, beautiful reality.
Practical support makes a difference: Courses like EarlyBirds offer real-world tools tailored for neurodivergent children.
Mentioned in This Episode
EarlyBirds Programme by the National Autistic Society
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