Control Is a Myth: What I Learned From a Business Flop
Discipline isn’t about hustle or perfection—it’s a form of self-care. It’s believing in where you’re going, even when no one else sees it.In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on a business moment that broke my heart—one of my most anticipated classes flopped due to a major tech fail (thank you, AWS 😅). After weeks of preparation, thousands of registrations, and a heart-driven message I couldn’t wait to share… hardly anyone could access it.It was devastating.But it became a powerful lesson in letting go of control and focusing on what really matters: effort over outcome.If you’ve ever asked, “Why is this happening?”—this episode is for you.Because yes, things will go wrong in business. And yes, you’ll still be okay.Click >>PLAY<< to hear all of this and:[01:00] Why overthinking is really a desire for control (and why that never works)[03:06] The origin of the class that “flopped” and why it was so personally meaningful[04:06] Preparing like crazy for a no-pitch, heart-centered live event[05:08] Tech goes down: the moment everything unraveled (and what I did next)[06:30] The mindset shift that saved the day: “Everything happens for me”[09:25] How this experience transformed how I show up—and why I’m still gratefulListen to Related Episodes:How to Turn Marketing Setbacks into Future SuccessThe One Skill Every Entrepreneur Needs to DevelopWhat to Do When the Unexpected Happens📧 Join my Newsletter for a weekly cocktail of insider business strategy, personal reflections, and the journey of being a thought leader: https://jasminestar.com/newsletter 📧For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode605You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!
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If You Don’t Quit, You Can’t Lose
→ Share this episode with somebody you think would benefit from it, and send me a DM. I would be honored to know what resonated most with you from this episode. ←↓This episode wasn’t supposed to air.At the Wealthy & Well-Known Summit, I stepped on stage for an unfiltered Q&A about building a brand when nothing seems to be working. No keynote, no polish—just the truth.I shared what the last two years have really looked like behind the scenes: missed expectations, pivots, and hard-won lessons in resilience, integrity, and reinvention.You’ll hear:What it means to build in the darkThe real cost of scalingWhy consistency matters more than confidenceHow 25 Zoom calls shaped my next business moveIf you’ve ever wondered, “Is it supposed to be this hard?”—this one’s for you.Let’s ride.Click play to hear all of this and:[00:46] An honest behind-the-scenes look at why this recording felt too raw to release.[01:44] Why leaning into polarity and being unapologetically bold matters more than ever.[03:50] An exploration of what it feels like to evolve when your audience can't yet see the full picture.[05:22] The difficult decision to give up control—and the clarity that followed.[06:20] How a personal mantra—“If I don’t quit, I can’t lose”—became a lifeline during discouraging seasons.[08:07] How real conversations with ideal clients led to a powerful, beta-tested business pivot.Listen to Related Episodes:How to Discover Your Uniqueness and Gain the Recognition You Deserve with Rory VadenHow to Get the Most Profitable Leads for Your Business with Rory VadenIf you’d like to connect further with Rory and his team, visit freebrandcall.com/jasminestar to sign up for a free call. You can also follow Rory on Instagram at @roryvaden and @brandbuildersgroup.Share this episode with somebody you think would benefit from it, and send me a DM. I would be honored to know what resonated most with you from this episode.For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode604You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!
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Make Better Decisions Faster
What if the only thing holding you back... was a belief?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Alan Barnard—global expert in Theory of Constraints—to explore how entrepreneurs can shift from “That’s not possible” to breakthrough success.We talk about:The #1 belief that limits most entrepreneursWhy bad conditions don’t equal bad resultsA jaw-dropping story of coal miners who beat the oddsHow to make better decisions fasterIf you’re feeling stuck, behind, or like your goal is out of reach, this episode is your next best move. 🎧Click >>PLAY<< to hear all of this and:[03:41] Why “That’s not possible” is the most dangerous belief—and what to replace it with[06:36] How Dr. Barnard handled a crisis with coal miners who were certain their goal was impossible[08:51] Two powerful questions to shift your mindset and energize a discouraged team[14:58] The surprising difference between good and great entrepreneurs—it’s not what you think[20:30] The real reason you self-sabotage (and how to stop it)[26:15] Jasmine’s personal moment of clarity about her own “predictive” behavior[36:00] The 5 steps to overcoming any limiting beliefListen to Related Episodes:How to Reclaim Your Time and Boost Business Productivity with Nick SonnenbergHow to Reach IMPOSSIBLE Goals with Dr. Benjamin HardyMake Better Business Decisions with This One Mindset ShiftConnect With Dr. Alan Barnard:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dralanbarnard/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dralan.barnardWebsite: https://dralanbarnard.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DrAlanBarnard📧 Join my Newsletter for a weekly cocktail of insider business strategy, personal reflections, and the journey of being a thought leader: https://jasminestar.com/newsletter 📧For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode603You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!
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Rewrite Your Identity: From Self-Sabotage to Self-Worth
If you've ever told yourself "I'm not enough"—this one's for you. In this short but powerful episode, Lewis Howes shares how the stories we repeat in our heads shape our identity… and how he rewrote his through a signed contract with himself. It’s raw, real, and exactly what every entrepreneur needs to hear when they feel stuck.Click play to hear all of this and:[00:42] The mindset shift you need to get unstuck[01:00] How negative self-talk shapes your identity[01:56] Lewis’ raw story of internalized self-hatred[03:00] The healing journey that led to inner peace[04:07] Writing a new identity contract (yes, literally!)[05:15] Choosing a believable identity you can actually live into[06:13] Why integrity and authenticity matter in your transformation🎧 Listen to the full episode with Lewis Howes, You’re Not Stuck: How to Overcome Your Fears and Rewrite Your Identity, >>HERE<<Connect With Lewis Howes:Podcast links: The School of Greatness - https://lewishowes.com/podcast/# The Daily Motivation - https://greatness.com/daily-motivation/Social links: • Website: https://lewishowes.com/• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis• X: https://x.com/lewishowes• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lewishowes📧 Join my Newsletter for a weekly cocktail of insider business strategy, personal reflections, and the journey of being a thought leader: https://jasminestar.com/newsletter 📧For full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode602You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!
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3 Money Beliefs That Made Me Millions
Complete this quick survey to tell me know more about what you would like to hear from me, and how I could serve you best: https://jasminestar.com/octobersurvey↓I used to think making more money meant more hustle, longer hours, and inevitable burnout. Sound familiar?If you’ve tried the strategies, hired the coaches, and still feel stuck, this live-recorded masterclass is for YOU.I’m sharing the 3 money beliefs that helped me go from struggling entrepreneur to building multiple 7- and 8-figure businesses — and how you can apply them today.This isn’t fluff. It’s a real, science-backed breakdown of the mindset shifts that took me from million-dollar years to million-dollar months.Inside, you’ll hear:💥 Why the market is always right💥 Why failure might be your greatest asset💥 A wild story of kindergarteners outsmarting MBAs💥 The 3 agreements I made that changed everythingOh — and how I made $100K my first year… with zero photography experience.Let’s rewire your mindset and normalize failure on the way to success.You in?Click >>PLAY<< to hear all of this and:[00:01] Why your offer might not be selling (and what the market is telling you)[00:54] The mindset shift that changed my business trajectory — no pitch, all value[02:51] The spaghetti challenge: why kindergarteners outperform MBAs in business[06:23] Three core agreements I made to unlock a millionaire mindset[07:24] The power of not quitting: how I made $100K in my first year with no experience[10:27] I don’t know everything, but I can learn anything: my self-taught entrepreneur journey[13:45] How to create something once and sell it again and again[16:00] Why believing in your future self is the ultimate business strategyListen to Related Episodes:The 4 Things My Brain Did to Keep Me Stuck - and How I Overcame ThemHow to Build Your Self Trust to Make Better Business DecisionsWhy Scrappy Entrepreneurs Always WinFor full show notes, visit jasminestar.com/podcast/episode601You know that feeling when you find a platform that just works—and you never have to worry about switching? That’s been me and Showit for the past 10+ years.I built my website with Showit because it gives me total design freedom.If you’re ready to build a website that works FOR you—and not against you—head to JasmineStar.com/showit for a 14-day free trial + first month free when you subscribe!
The Jasmine Star Show is a conversational business podcast that explores what it really means to turn your passion into profits. Law school dropout turned world-renowned photographer and expert business strategist, host Jasmine Star delivers her best business advice every week with a mixture of inspiration, wittiness, and a kick in the pants. On The Jasmine Star Show, you can expect raw business coaching sessions, honest conversations with industry peers, and most importantly: tactical tips and a step-by-step plan to empower entrepreneurs to build a brand, market it on social media, and create a life they love.