Her Discussions by Dr Faye

In today's episode, we're joined by Sophie Pender, founder of the 93% Club and Forbes 30 Under 30, who built the UK's biggest network for state educated people after realising that class in the workplace was the one thing nobody was talking about honestly.
We talk about what classism really looks like in 2026, private vs public school experiences, and how your background can shape your life in ways other people often don’t even realise.
Sophie also shares what it was actually like growing up on one of the biggest council estates in North London and then walking into one of the UK’s top universities, and why nothing really prepares you for that gap.

What you’ll learn:
🚌 How private vs public schools still shape your opportunities in the UK
📚 Why only 7% of the UK is privately educated, but they dominate top careers
📈 #1 reason why classism is at an all time high in the UK
🏢 Dealing with judgement at work and university
🏠 How your home & childhood life shapes what you think is ‘normal’
Resources & links mentioned:
Sophie Pender’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sophieapender/
The 93% Club - https://www.93percent.club/

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Would a dermatologist buy these?

Every Thursday, we’re sharing the Buy or Bye Bye segment from one of your favourite Her Discussions episodes - a breakdown of what actually works for your health. 

This week, we're revisiting our episode with Dr Justine, an acne dermatologist and skincare expert, featured in Vogue, The Sunday Times, and more.

In the full episode, we discuss:

💖 5 products to fade acne marks
🌸 how to get rid of hormonal pimples
💤 3 ingredients to fix dark circles
⚠️ who should NOT use retinol
✨ cheap ways to boost your collagen
🥛 how to know if dairy is causing your acne
💧 the products that give you glass skin

Listen to the full podcast here:

Spotify: ⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/6SqqUXgAYgXOU6X2EcX4m6?si=PTRGQo9KR6uRlK6NMgyyRg
YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9nxsfizdl_8

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Resources & links mentioned:
https://www.instagram.com/drjustinekluk/

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In today’s episode, we’re joined by voice and confidence expert Caroline Goyder, who helps people understand what’s actually happening when your voice shakes, your mind goes blank, or you suddenly start overthinking mid-sentence.
We also get into why confidence isn’t about ‘faking it’, how your nervous system directly impacts the way you speak, and the small, practical shifts that make you sound calmer, clearer, and more in control when public speaking.

What you’ll learn:
⭐ How to stop your voice shaking when public speaking
❌ Why pretending to be confident doesn’t work (and what does)
🧠 The real reason your brain freezes when speaking (and how to fix it)
⏸️ The 2 second trick that instantly makes you sound more confident
💨 The 1 breathing habit that improves how you speak

Resources & links mentioned:
Caroline Goyder’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinegoyder/
Free Gravitas Course: https://carolinegoyder.com/
Course Library 2025: https://carolinegoyder.com/courses/
Caroline Goyder's Books: https://carolinegoyder.com/books/?kuid=8165193d-b1b1-4c04-9e11-5c54fc86fa7c-1778057021&kref=https%3A%2F%2Fcarolinegoyder.com%2F
Toastmasters Public Speaking Club: https://www.toastmasters.org/
Ultra Speaking community:https://ultraspeaking.com/

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Another Thursday, another mini episode!

Every Thursday, we’ll be sharing the Buy or Bye-Bye segment from one of your favourite Her Discussions episodes - a breakdown of what actually works for your health. 

This week, we're revisiting our episode with Kate Moyle who is one of the UK’s leading psychosexual and relationship therapists and authors.

In the full episode, we discuss:
👀 the biggest lies we’re told about what sex ‘should’ look like
⭐ what to do if you find sex painful
💬 why you may never have had an orgasm
💗 tips for the girls who want love but keep pushing it away
🏁 a free way to make sure new partners don’t have STDs
❤️‍🩹 how to rekindle intimacy in long-term relationships

Listen to the full podcast here:

Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/3IjmxhBfzqMLHeHCzq4WFC?si=Bk9x_XXxRwW2Jp2nauuvxA
YouTube: ⁠https://youtu.be/LSgdzYr9QIk

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Resources & links mentioned:
@katemoyletherapy
Kate’s book: ⁠https://geni.us/TheScienceOfSex⁠
Kate’s podcast: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podc

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Are you still trying to figure out your personal style in your 20s?

In this episode, we’re joined by stylist Flick Bartlett, who has worked with celebrities including Amber Davies, Binky Felstead, and Vanessa White, creating looks that feel effortless but still like you.

We also get into where to shop for better pieces without overbuying, how to decide what to keep or get rid of in your wardrobe, and how to elevate simple outfits with small styling details like accessories.

What you’ll learn:
👗 The best trick for busy girls to plan 5 outfits for the week
😴 The #1 outfit for when you’re tired and in a rush
💰 A £5 trick to make a £20 blazer look like a £200 one
👖 7 staples every girl should have in her wardrobe
✨ 3 ways to make a boring outfit look cute

Resources & links mentioned:
Flick Bartlett’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/styledbyflick/
Cos White Shirts - https://www.cos.com/en-gb/women/shirts/white-shirts
For broach advice - https://www.instagram.com/amyfuchsia/
Indyx app - https://www.myindyx.com/
Dua Lipa tour outfits: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Xq2N6VjJFA
Jimmy Fairly glasses - https://www.jimmyfairly.com/en-row/products/m157-m1-rocky
Links to subscribe / follow:
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