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In this episode, Robert James explores how OCD can intensify social anxiety, turning normal worries about interactions into compulsive rumination and reassurance-seeking. He explains the OCD loop, the role of the inner critic, and why demanding certainty makes things worse.
Robert shares practical strategies—tolerating uncertainty, mindful curiosity about anxiety, postponement, values-based refocusing, and small exposure steps—to break the cycle and regain control. He also mentions a 12-week program and offers a discovery call for those seeking more help
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. - Ready for real help with OCD or anxiety? Book a free discovery call with me — no pressure, no obligation: robertjamescoaching.com/book-discovery-call
Prefer to work at your own pace? My 12-week programs are available self-guided:
Break Free from OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/self-guided
Sensorimotor OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/sensorimotor-self-guided
New here? Start with my free course: robertjamescoaching.com/free
In episode 640, Robert James explains how anxiety and OCD pull us into our heads and offers a practical way to come back to the present by reconnecting with the physical world—spending time outside, moving your body, and connecting with others.
He shares simple steps: notice and name the anxious thought, bring attention to physical sensations, step outside without filling the silence, participate in life even while anxious, and consider his 12-week program for extra support (robertjamescoaching.com)
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. - Ready for real help with OCD or anxiety? Book a free discovery call with me — no pressure, no obligation: robertjamescoaching.com/book-discovery-call
Prefer to work at your own pace? My 12-week programs are available self-guided:
Break Free from OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/self-guided
Sensorimotor OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/sensorimotor-self-guided
New here? Start with my free course: robertjamescoaching.com/free
In episode 639 Robert James explains practical, simple steps to use when you’ve already been massively triggered — how to create space from urgent thoughts, come back into your body, and reduce the power of obsessive doubt.
He walks through grounding techniques (feet on the floor, breathing, shoulder rolls), body scanning, checking whether compulsions are helping, and refocusing on small, value-driven actions — all while accepting that strong emotions can be present and will pass
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. - Ready for real help with OCD or anxiety? Book a free discovery call with me — no pressure, no obligation: robertjamescoaching.com/book-discovery-call
Prefer to work at your own pace? My 12-week programs are available self-guided:
Break Free from OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/self-guided
Sensorimotor OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/sensorimotor-self-guided
New here? Start with my free course: robertjamescoaching.com/free
In this episode Robert James explains why getting temporary relief from rumination actually reinforces the OCD cycle. He outlines how rumination acts as a silent compulsion, why it feels like a solution, and how it only leads back to more anxiety.
Robert offers a clearer alternative: tolerate uncertainty, resist the urge to ruminate, and practice returning to the present—steps that build long-term freedom from OCD and anxiety. He also mentions a 12-week program and a free discovery call for those who want help
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. - Ready for real help with OCD or anxiety? Book a free discovery call with me — no pressure, no obligation: robertjamescoaching.com/book-discovery-call
Prefer to work at your own pace? My 12-week programs are available self-guided:
Break Free from OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/self-guided
Sensorimotor OCD: robertjamescoaching.com/sensorimotor-self-guided
New here? Start with my free course: robertjamescoaching.com/free
In this episode, Robert James shares a detailed, compassionate plan for what he would do if OCD and anxiety returned at their worst — covering the first 24 hours, the next 30 days, and practical tools to interrupt rumination, tolerate discomfort, and refocus on meaningful life activities.
He emphasizes choosing responses over reacting, noticing the signature state of chasing certainty, allowing anxiety without over-focusing on it, and using values-based action and self-compassion to gradually reclaim control
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
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About The OCD & Anxiety Podcast
This podcast is all about OCD and anxiety and how we can have a better relationship with it. If you struggle with OCD or another anxiety disorder and want to learn how to manage it better, then this podcast is for you.
Ready for real help? Book a free discovery call — no pressure, no obligation: https://robertjamescoaching.com/book-discovery-call/
Prefer to work at your own pace? My 12-week programs are available self-guided:Break Free from OCD: https://robertjamescoaching.com/self-guided/Sensorimotor OCD: https://robertjamescoaching.com/sensorimotor-self-guided/
New here? Start with my free course: https://robertjamescoaching.com/free/
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