Please Me! Podcast with Eve

• Goddess Worship & Devotion: How a Sexual Sadist Explains Ritual, Humiliation & Bondage | Kink Series

  In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually powerful episode of the Kink Series, we go far beyond basic BDSM concepts and drop directly into the psychology, ritual, and emotional architecture of kink with Mistress Audry Lu Black — a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader. Together we explore how bondage, ritual, humiliation, sexual sadism, and power exchange can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, trauma processing, and emotional liberation. What begins as a conversation about rope quickly expands into a rich discussion about worship, devotion, fear release, identity, surrender, and the transformative role of a Dominant who leads with intention and precision. This episode opens the door to understanding kink as both art and psychology, and how deep D/s can create safety, stillness, and meaning for those who crave structure, containment, or catharsis. • Why 20% of the body’s energy feeds the brain and how cognitive load, overthinking, and perfectionism show up in bondage scenes • Bondage as nervous system regulation — creating stillness, presence, and relief for anxious or neurodivergent minds who struggle with meditation • Somatic containment through rope and restraint for anxiety, trauma, and hypermobility conditions (including Ehlers-Danlos and other connective tissue differences) • The paradox of safety through restriction — how removing choice, movement, and anticipated pressure can reduce anxiety and soothe a dysregulated nervous system • Femme Domme philosophy and energetic leadership — what it means to embody dominance, hold power, and create psychological structures for surrender • Sexual sadism and humiliation — how intention, emotional tone, and negotiated meaning differentiate harm from healing, and cruelty from catharsis • The psychology of worship and groveling — why submission, devotion, and being at Her feet can be grounding, erotic, or spiritually significant • Ritual in kink — how structure, ceremony, and symbolic actions frame scenes, build trust, and regulate the body’s response to intensity • Lifestyle vs. professional domination — the differences in purpose, boundaries, emotional bandwidth, and the Dominant’s role in each dynamic • Deep-dive negotiation practices — understanding limits, desires, tone, chemistry, and psychological triggers before entering a scene • A full, realistic BDSM pre-scene negotiation role play so listeners can hear how safe, ethical, consent-based kink is structured before any play begins • The Dominant’s internal process — emotional labor, reading the submissive’s physiology, and creating a safe container for intensity • How humiliation can be affirming, transformative, or erotic depending on the submissive’s psychology and agreed roles • Bondage as an anchor for embodiment — helping the mind exit constant vigilance and enter stillness, surrender, or erotic presence  Touch Me There: Vaginal Reflexology, Squirting Secrets & Orgasmic Magic — available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AsOZmGPvMiR3pQfVZKfxR?si=fFDg8SQqS7OCQQn5ptYGoA Connect with the Guest Mistress Audry Lu Black Podcast: Placemaker for Perversion Substack: https://audrylublack.substack.com/ Official Website: https://mistresslublack.com/ Mentioned Resources Hani Cheng – Talk to the Peach: Sensual healing, feminine pleasure, and reconnecting with your body (Listen here) Hani Cheng – Reflexology: Mapping female genitals with reflexology for pleasure and body awareness (Listen here) Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing: shamelesscare.com Eve’s Substack — Q&A, workshops, & exclusive content: https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision Support survivors of typhoon & earthquake: worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Filling Love Tanks & Facing Challenges: How the 4 Intimacies Boost Relationship Success | Relationship Education

  Episode Summary In this episode of the Please Me! Podcast, we explore how to deepen intimacy, strengthen communication, and enhance sexual wellness through intentional relationship rituals and beautifully designed intimacy tools. This conversation blends practical sex education, emotional connection strategies, and insights into how your environment and bedroom aesthetics influence desire and pleasure. We break down the transformative Four Intimacies Framework—verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy—showing how each dimension supports long-term relationship success. From daily closeness-building rituals to the benefits of luxury silicone lubricants for comfort and long-lasting pleasure, this episode offers couples and individuals actionable tools for a more connected, fulfilling love life. Whether you're looking to build emotional safety, face relationship challenges with compassion, or elevate your intimacy routine, this episode provides a modern, sex-positive roadmap for creating lasting connection. Topics Covered The Four Intimacies: verbal, emotional, physical & spiritual Daily rituals that strengthen connection in relationships How bedroom aesthetics and environment impact desire Benefits of luxury silicone lubricants for comfort & confidence The Love Tank model for emotional availability How to communicate through relationship “icks” with compassion Connect With the Guests Dr. Amy Clark & Roy ClarkWebsite: arialuxelife.com Additional Resources Mentioned Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testinghttps://shamelesscare.com/ Eve’s Substack (Newsletter + Community)Q&A, workshops, articles & exclusive content Please Me Podcast PatreonExtended episodes & bonus contenthttp://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast World Vision — Support for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquakehttps://www.worldvision.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Neurodiverse Kink, Subspace Chemistry & Somatic Play Explored | Kink Series

  Episode Overview In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education. Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way. Topics Covered🌍 BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink Yoruba deity Oshun, rituals, trance, and altered states Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM Understanding subspace and domspace The “BDSM chemical cocktail”: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation Identity exploration and self-expression Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more Safety and confidence in animal headspace Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools Psychological and somatic benefits Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping Trauma-informed educational approach Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos Perfect for anyone curious about: BDSM safety Neurodiverse kink practices Trauma-informed intimacy Somatic pleasure exploration Cultural history in kink This episode is concise, informative, and actionable — grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices. 🧠 Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistry🧩 Neurodiversity & BDSM🐾 Pet Play & Role-Play👣 Foot Play Basics🍑 Anal Play & Pegging🩺 Medical Play & Educational Role-PlayWhy ListenConnect with the Guests The Commandant — Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink HistorianWebsite: hausofthecommandant.com Patreon Bonus Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations not included in the free version.Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month. Additional Resources Mentioned Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing : https://shamelesscare.com/  SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision — Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquake :  https://www.worldvision.org/  Eve’s Substack & Patreon for Q&A, workshops, and exclusive content pleaseme.online : https://pleaseme.online/  patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast : http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Erotic Fairy-Tale Retellings & the Art of Morally Gray Love | Author Talk

  This episode of the Please Me! Podcast features a deep, intimate conversation with dark romance author Bria Rose, celebrated for her seductive, emotionally rich, and morally gray fairy-tale retellings. Together, we explore how trauma, healing, sexuality, empowerment, and feminine archetypes shape her storytelling and the dark, alluring worlds she creates. Bria opens up about the inspiration behind Her Dark Promise, her twisted Beauty and the Beast retelling, while offering exclusive insight into her upcoming dark Pinocchio retelling and a new morally gray romance currently in development. We also discuss her Disney upbringing, how innocence and darkness intertwine in adult fantasy, and why readers crave complex, flawed, emotionally intense characters. This episode includes a raw, vulnerable role-play segment delving into boundaries, relationships, communication, desire, self-worth, erotic identity, and reclaiming feminine power. Perfect for listeners who adore dark romance, romantasy, adult fairy-tale retellings, erotic storytelling, and trauma-informed character development. Additional Resources Mentioned Sexual Health & Testing • Shameless Care — At-home sexual health testingUse code PLEASME for $15 offhttps://shamelesscare.com/ • SDC.com — Free trial membershipUse code 37340https://www.sdc.com/ Disaster Relief Donations • Support survivors of the recent typhoon and earthquake in the Philippineshttps://www.worldvision.org/ Eve’s Communities & Exclusive Content • Patreon (ad-free episodes, bonus content, exclusive photos):https://pleaseme.online/ • Substack (articles, updates, erotic essays, Q&A):https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Intuitive Topping & the Art of Power Exchange | Kink Series

  Welcome to the Please Me! Podcast Kink Series, where host Eve leads bold, trauma-informed conversations about sexuality, kink, empowerment, and embodied pleasure. As the number-one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, Please Me! brings listeners into real, raw, and educational discussions designed to close the orgasm gap and dismantle shame. In this episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride — a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest 2025/2026 — to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, BDSM roles, and how to develop real-time awareness in kink. Drawing from insights at DomCon and Maeve’s influential “Intuitive Topping” class, this episode dives into: The difference between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers How power exchange works through negotiation, communication, and consent Why intuitive topping is not psychic ability, but pattern recognition and data collection How to read breath, movement, vocalizations, body language, and individualized responses How neurodivergence influences sensation expression and communication Understanding hurt vs. harm and why negotiated pain can be safe What defines a scene — negotiation, safewords, boundaries, aftercare, and follow-up Why kink isn’t always sexual, and how sensation play can offer catharsis, emotional release, and embodiment How Eve and Maeve negotiated a real pre-scene demonstration together Why aftercare is essential for both tops and bottoms This conversation brings clarity, depth, and compassion to kink education — offering both beginners and seasoned players a richer understanding of how intuition, safety, and connection shape BDSM. Patreon Bonus Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon — including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations that don’t fit into the free version. Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month  Additional Resources Mentioned: • Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing • SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership • Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon and earthquake in the Philippines https://www.worldvision.org/ • Eve’s Substack and Patreon communities for Q&A submissions and exclusive content https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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