Neurodiverse Kink, Subspace Chemistry & Somatic Play Explored | Kink Series
Episode Overview
In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education.
Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way.
Topics Covered🌍 BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage
African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink
Yoruba deity Oshun, rituals, trance, and altered states
Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM
Understanding subspace and domspace
The “BDSM chemical cocktail”: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline
Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop
Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy
How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink
Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation
Identity exploration and self-expression
Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more
Safety and confidence in animal headspace
Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools
Psychological and somatic benefits
Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette
Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping
Trauma-informed educational approach
Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained
Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos
Perfect for anyone curious about:
BDSM safety
Neurodiverse kink practices
Trauma-informed intimacy
Somatic pleasure exploration
Cultural history in kink
This episode is concise, informative, and actionable — grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices.
🧠 Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistry🧩 Neurodiversity & BDSM🐾 Pet Play & Role-Play👣 Foot Play Basics🍑 Anal Play & Pegging🩺 Medical Play & Educational Role-PlayWhy ListenConnect with the Guests
The Commandant — Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink HistorianWebsite: hausofthecommandant.com
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Erotic Fairy-Tale Retellings & the Art of Morally Gray Love | Author Talk
This episode of the Please Me! Podcast features a deep, intimate conversation with dark romance author Bria Rose, celebrated for her seductive, emotionally rich, and morally gray fairy-tale retellings. Together, we explore how trauma, healing, sexuality, empowerment, and feminine archetypes shape her storytelling and the dark, alluring worlds she creates.
Bria opens up about the inspiration behind Her Dark Promise, her twisted Beauty and the Beast retelling, while offering exclusive insight into her upcoming dark Pinocchio retelling and a new morally gray romance currently in development. We also discuss her Disney upbringing, how innocence and darkness intertwine in adult fantasy, and why readers crave complex, flawed, emotionally intense characters.
This episode includes a raw, vulnerable role-play segment delving into boundaries, relationships, communication, desire, self-worth, erotic identity, and reclaiming feminine power. Perfect for listeners who adore dark romance, romantasy, adult fairy-tale retellings, erotic storytelling, and trauma-informed character development.
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Intuitive Topping & the Art of Power Exchange | Kink Series
Welcome to the Please Me! Podcast Kink Series, where host Eve leads bold, trauma-informed conversations about sexuality, kink, empowerment, and embodied pleasure. As the number-one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, Please Me! brings listeners into real, raw, and educational discussions designed to close the orgasm gap and dismantle shame.
In this episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride — a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest 2025/2026 — to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, BDSM roles, and how to develop real-time awareness in kink.
Drawing from insights at DomCon and Maeve’s influential “Intuitive Topping” class, this episode dives into:
The difference between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers
How power exchange works through negotiation, communication, and consent
Why intuitive topping is not psychic ability, but pattern recognition and data collection
How to read breath, movement, vocalizations, body language, and individualized responses
How neurodivergence influences sensation expression and communication
Understanding hurt vs. harm and why negotiated pain can be safe
What defines a scene — negotiation, safewords, boundaries, aftercare, and follow-up
Why kink isn’t always sexual, and how sensation play can offer catharsis, emotional release, and embodiment
How Eve and Maeve negotiated a real pre-scene demonstration together
Why aftercare is essential for both tops and bottoms
This conversation brings clarity, depth, and compassion to kink education — offering both beginners and seasoned players a richer understanding of how intuition, safety, and connection shape BDSM.
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In this episode, host Eve Hall sits down once again with Sean Shutt and Amanda Courier of the Touchy Subjects Podcast for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about human trafficking awareness and prevention. Together, they dive deep into the realities of sex trafficking, labor trafficking, and the systems that put vulnerable individuals at risk.
Sean and Amanda break down common myths about human trafficking, clarify what trafficking actually looks like in the U.S., and explain how predators use online grooming tactics to target youth. The discussion also sheds light on high-risk populations, including runaway and homeless youth, LGBTQ+ individuals, foster-involved teens, and marginalized communities.
Listeners will learn practical safety and prevention strategies designed for parents, caregivers, and educators—from setting healthy digital boundaries to having early, age-appropriate conversations about consent, safety, and bodily autonomy.
The episode also explores:
Why accurate media representation of trafficking matters
How men can play a crucial role in advocacy and culture-shifting
How early education builds resilience, self-advocacy skills, and long-term safety
What community members can do to support survivors and disrupt trafficking systems
This is a must-hear conversation for anyone seeking to better understand human trafficking, protect vulnerable populations, and become an informed advocate for prevention.
Resouces :
Touchy Subjects: How Abuse Hides Behind Love and Controlhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/1zTBzGvpSEN6ahMngRH8uH?si=1WUp66VNT5yE8IuE6gZfiAEmotional Manipulation Exposed: Understanding the Power & Control Wheelhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/1I5XJwUb4kZyJJJOzd0ok1?si=N8ZZt6AOSxC79z3fc-PPmgWhat the Swinger Community Actually Looks Like (Hint: It is Not a Diddy Freakoff)https://open.spotify.com/episode/3EnP3W02CGln2wp45nn7OS?si=rwb0j2WLQuCxxqWp-SZQ0w
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More Pleasure in 2025 Please Me Podcast
Welcome to Please Me!, the award-winning sexuality and sexual wellness podcast hosted by Eve.Each week, Eve delivers bold, unfiltered conversations centered on pleasure education, sexual empowerment, body confidence, intimacy skills, healing trauma, and Big Clit Energy—helping you transform your relationship with desire and deepen your connection to your body.
In this episode, Eve joins Vic as a guest on the Liquor Talk Podcast podcast for a powerful and uncensored conversation about sexual wellness in 2025, the complexities of modern relationships, and how to reclaim pleasure on your own terms.
This episode blends sexual health education, relationship psychology, and pleasure-focused empowerment, making it one of the most essential episodes for anyone wanting deeper intimacy and better sex.
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Liquor Talk Podcast -https://www.youtube.com/@liquortalkpodcast
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Welcome to Please Me! Podcast with Eve
Where Sexuality, Pleasure, and Big Clit Energy™ Take Center Stage
Please Me! is a bold, body-positive, pleasure-centered podcast that dives deep into sexuality, sexual health, and empowerment—without shame, stigma, or taboos. Hosted by Eve, a licensed Physical Therapist specializing in pelvic floor and sexual wellness, this show is your no-BS guide to reclaiming desire, closing the orgasm gap, and embracing radical self-love at every stage of life.
Through candid conversations, expert interviews, and unfiltered real talk, Please Me! explores what it truly means to thrive erotically, emotionally, and physically. Whether you're navigating hormones, healing from trauma, enhancing your sexual confidence, or just curious about kink, this podcast is for you.
Sexual health and wellness
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No shame. No censorship. Just powerful conversations to help you explore your desires, reclaim your sexual agency, and embrace your Big Clit Energy™.
Eve is a licensed Physical Therapist with advanced certification in pelvic health, treating conditions such as erectile dysfunction, painful sex, vaginal dryness, premature ejaculation, sensitivity loss, incontinence, and more.
She is the creator of The Orgasm Revolution, a movement dedicated to closing the orgasm gap and elevating inclusive, shame-free pleasure for all bodies. A proud neurodivergent, BIPOC, Latina, and LGBTQ+ community member, Eve brings clinical expertise, radical authenticity, and deep empathy to every episode. Her approach blends evidence-based care with the warmth of your favorite sex-positive best friend.
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