Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

107 episodes

Masturbation & Neurodivergent Kids: What's Normal and What to Say
07/1/2026 | 5 mins.
Worried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining.
Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy.
Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this.
Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube
ND Kids Episode on YouTube

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BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
Other stuff
Birds & Bees & Kids.com has tons of info and resources.
Work with kids? Check out BBKPros.com.

Socials: @birdsbeeskids

Monitoring and filtering: BARK is robust and pretty easy to install.

Do you have a neurodivergent kid? Grab 3 Key Things Your ND Kid Needs To Know (you'll get 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks, too)

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How to explain what slut means!
23/12/2025 | 5 mins.
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
In this episode, I talk about the word 'slut'.
List of sexual slang terms from Bark

BBK Bookstore is here.
Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

LEARN MORE
Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube

ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?
[email protected]
BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
Facebook
Instagram
How to recognize grooming! Ug. Sorry-not-sorry.
26/11/2025 | 15 mins.
In this episode, I explains grooming - how to spot it and what to do about it.
Consent Parenting is the place for you if you were sexually abused as a child.
Savvy Parents Safe Kids has up-to-date tips too help you spot trouble.
There's a lot of helpful info here about this from the Australian government Practice Kit for Child Sexual Abuse (this is for folks who work with kids).
Other resources
Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

BBK Bookstore is here
Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

LEARN MORE
Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube

ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?
[email protected]
BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
Facebook
Instagram
Holiday Boundaries for Neurodivergent Kids | Clear, Concrete Ways to Teach Consent
11/11/2025 | 7 mins.
The holidays can be extra tough for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids—new people, touchy relatives, and lots of noise. In this episode, I share simple, concrete ways to help ND kids keep their boundaries and stay comfortable.
You'll learn:
– How to prep ND kids for hugs and touch expectations
– What language makes boundaries crystal clear
– How to support them when family doesn't get it
Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids.
LEARN MORE

Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube
ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?
[email protected]
Learn more!
BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
Holiday Boundaries for Kids | How to Teach Consent and Body Safety with Family Members
11/11/2025 | 7 mins.
Holiday gatherings can make body boundaries a mess. Here's how to help kids handle hugs, high-energy relatives, and "say-hi" moments with confidence and respect.
You'll learn:
– What to teach kids about saying "no" politely
– How to prep family for your boundary rules
– Ways to model consent during the holidays
Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent

LEARN MORE
Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube

ND Kids Episode on YouTube

Got some thoughts or questions?
[email protected]
Learn more!
BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
30-minute Quickie Consultation
Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question.
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
The Porn Talk Info Kit
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

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About Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I'm Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school. When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks, what's age-appropriate, and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)! When it comes to communicating about all things related to sexuality, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen. To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it's a stupid one), call 206-926-1522.* I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too. + IG @BirdsBeesKids + FB @BirdsBeesKids + BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com *In middle school, they talk about everything, so it's better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn't it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything? **Not a thing.

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