Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

• Rediscovering Soft Swap at a Swingers Club Fun4Two Netherlands

  Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the Netherlands. What started as a night out turned into a wildly sensual experience filled with connection, chemistry, a six-handed massage… and yes, some cum on the floor. We explore the dynamics of soft swap play, the assumptions people make about it, and whether full swap couples are missing out by skipping over these intimate encounters. Cate also makes a hilarious faux pas, and offers a boss-level club tour move, and together they reflect on how chemistry can totally eclipse categories. Here’s what you’ll hear: 🔹 The Night at Fun4Two: From flirting at the bar to hands-on tantra and one unforgettable group experience 🔹 Soft Swap Revisited: Why it felt complete, hot, and unexpectedly fulfilling — even without PIV 🔹 Redefining the Rules: Thoughts on how vague soft swap definitions can create confusion and missed connections 🔹 Club Tips: How to stand out in a room full of lingerie and boots  🔹 Red Flags, Green Flags & Play Pitfalls: Advice for newbies and seasoned swingers alike 🔹 Listener Reflections: Juicy comments from the community about the pros and cons of soft swap dynamics Plus, life updates! Cate’s heading to Miami, Darrell’s off to South Korea, and someone just turned 40… but we’re not talking about that, okay? Links: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us in Texas this October - Libertine Events : https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio   Is soft swap the underrated gem of the swinger world? Rediscover it with us in this sexy, playful, and thought-provoking episode.   Tags: Soft Swap, Swinger Club Play, Full Swap vs. Soft Swap, Fun4Two, Swinger Podcast, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Stories, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Tips, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Non-Monogamous Adventures

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• Fighting for Freedom: Wicked Fun Club vs. the Town of Plymouth

  In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth. Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities. Steve shares what really happened, how it’s affecting the club and its members, and what the community can do to support. This episode goes beyond local politics—it's a wake-up call for everyone in the lifestyle. “This story isn’t just about one club in one town—it’s about how adult freedom, privacy, and community values clash in the real world. Whether you're in Connecticut or California, we all have a stake in the lifestyle's right to exist safely and respectfully.” ~ Cate, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast In this episode, we cover: What Wicked Fun Club is and who it serves The zoning issue and cease and desist order Tensions between the club, the landlord, and the neighboring church The broader impact on lifestyle members and safe spaces The current appeal process What support is needed from the non-monogamous community How this story affects the lifestyle space nationwide Links and Resources: Wicked Fun Club Website: https://wickedfunclub.com News article on the shutdown: NBC Connecticut Reddit review thread: r/Swingers discussion Learn about club rights: https://ncsfreedom.org Stay Connected: Instagram: @swingingdownunder Twitter: @swingdownunder Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com Enjoying the show? Please subscribe, share, and leave us a review wherever you listen. Your support helps amplify important conversations like this one.

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• Swingers and Scarcity: Overcoming FOMO, Settling, and Playing Smart

  Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories In this thought-provoking episode of Wanderlust Swingers, Cate and Darrell dive deep into the Scarcity vs. Abundance mindset in the swinger lifestyle. Are your decisions driven by FOMO, settling, or a fear of limited options? From personal stories to juicy Reddit replies, we’re unpacking how scarcity might be shaping your lifestyle journey—and how to play smarter. Here’s what you’ll hear: Scarcity in Action: We explore real-life examples of scarcity driving decisions, like late-night hookups or compromises in smaller communities. Is it really scarcity, or just circumstance? Reddit’s Take: Hear insightful comments from the swinger community, from taking one for the team to how the internet changed the game. Cate & Darrell’s Journey: Personal stories about early scarcity-driven decisions and how they’ve embraced abundance over the years. Playing Smart: Practical tips for shifting your mindset, setting boundaries, and finding joy in the journey—whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger. Plus, life updates! Cate’s got new boobs, travel plans to the USA for Christmas, and some cheeky listener messages that’ll make you smile. Links: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Wanderlust Swingers: www.wanderlustswingers.com Miami Libertine Event: libertineevents.com/miami Ready to overcome FOMO and embrace abundance in your lifestyle journey? Join us for another sexy, fun, and insightful episode! Tags: Scarcity Mindset, Swinger Couples, FOMO in Swinging, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Tips, Swinger Podcast, Open Relationships, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Swinger Events, Non-Monogamous Adventures.

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• Hotwife Adventures - Darrells secret to navigating FEELD for hotwives in the Swingers Lifestyle

  Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a cheeky bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! Darrell has been up to mischief, creating a Feeld dating profile as Cate, and now he’s sharing all the juicy details. This hilarious and insightful episode uncovers the secrets to navigating Feeld for hotwives in the swinger lifestyle. Here's what you’ll hear: The Feeld Experiment: Darrell dives into his surprise project, managing Cate’s profile on Feeld and filtering through over 1,300 likes. Learn how he whittled down the matches and what got some users instantly unmatched. Top Tips for Men: Darrell shares the do’s and don’ts of crafting a Feeld profile that stands out, from avoiding boring bios to ditching the gym flex shots. The Hotwife Dynamic: With two dinner dates lined up for Cate, the couple reviews the remaining suitors to decide who’s worth chatting with, dating, or more. Did Darrell nail Cate’s taste? Tune in to find out! Links: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers  Wanderlust Swingers: www.wanderlustswingers.com Miami Libertine Event: libertineevents.com/miami Want more sexy stories and lifestyle tips? Check out our events and podcast for your next non-monogamous adventure! Tags: Hotwife Lifestyle, Feeld Dating Tips, Swinger Couples, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Adventures, Feeld Secrets, Open Relationship Stories, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Lifestyle Dating Apps, Non-Monogamy Profiles.

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• Libertine Events Unveiled: Host Stories, Playroom Favorites, and Coaching Secrets

  Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a jam-packed episode of Wanderlust Swingers as we dive into the highlights from the Libertine Events San Antonio Senses takeover! This episode features three incredible interviews with special guests who share their unique perspectives and experiences from the event. Jason and Sarah: Midwest-based hosts who joined Libertine for the first time as guest hosts. Hear about their role in hosting mingle games, how Sarah embraced a daring electric play demonstration with over 100 participants, and their tips for resetting energy at high-energy lifestyle events. Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University Podcast: Reflecting on Libertine's growth since Palm Springs in 2022, Ed and Phoebe share their impressions of the event's vibe, their favorite playrooms, and what sets Libertine Events apart in the lifestyle community. Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching: A specialist in coaching for non-monogamous individuals, Kel and her partner Meshai hosted an engaging edutainment session on crafting elevator pitches and handling rejection with grace. We discuss balancing work and play at lifestyle events and preview their upcoming jealousy workshop in January, focusing on dynamics with play partners. From electric play to meaningful connections, this episode offers a deep dive into the experiences that make Libertine Events so memorable. It’s a longer episode filled with insights, laughter, and a touch of sensual energy, thanks for hanging in there and listening to us! Jason and Sarah: [01:58] Mingle games and crowd energy Electric play demonstration highlights Tips for recharging your "power bar" Ed and Phoebe: [00:33:31] Libertine Events' evolution since 2022 Event atmosphere + the feel of the group Their favorite playrooms Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching: [1:00:35] Crafting elevator pitches and handling rejection Balancing hosting duties and personal enjoyment Sneak peek into the January jealousy workshop  Links Jealousy Workshop with Expansive Connection https://mailchi.mp/2116d78e5e3b/jealousyworkshop Swanky Unicorn Lifestyle Shirts https://swankyunicorn.com/  Swinger University website https://www.swingeruniversity.com/  Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Want to connect with like-minded couples? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/   Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Libertine Events, DTF Couples, Electric Play in the Lifestyle, Swinger Boundaries, Open Communication, Sex-Positive Adventures, Non-Monogamy Coaching, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Playroom Etiquette   Thank you for listening to Wanderlust Swingers!

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