Why does reflecting our Creator matter? Steve Cuss dives into the profound impact of remembering we are made in God’s image and how it is an antidote to the mundane. He challenges listeners to do the important work of engaging with beauty, wonder, the ability to learn, and more as a means of reshaping our daily focus. Steve shares actionable "summer homework" that could shift your perspective for good.
Resources mentioned in this episode include:
Annie Dillard’s Pilgrim at Tinker Creek
Steve Cuss’ The Expectation Gap
Steve’s Life Giving List
Andy Gullahorn’s Bury Me With My Friends
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Creedal Statements, the Nervous System, and Hunting For Character
Lisa Cuss joins Steve to recap three powerful conversations that remind us why our place in the universal, everlasting body of Christ matters now more than ever. Together, they revisit key insights from Glenn Packiam, Chuck DeGroat, and Kyle Idleman—connecting themes of identity and spiritual resilience. From the unifying power of the Nicene Creed to confronting toxic leadership and overcoming inner battles, Steve and Lisa show how spiritual formation offers bold clarity in the chaos of modern life.
Resources mentioned in this episode include:
Kyle Idleman’s Website
Kyle Idleman’s Every Thought Captive: Calm the Mental Chaos That Keeps You Stuck, Drains Your Hope, and Holds You Back
Explore Southeast Christian Church
Glenn Packiam’s What's a Christian, Anyway?: Finding Our Way in an Age of Confusion and Corruption
The Nicene Creed as stated in The Online Book of Common Prayer
Glenn Packiam's website
The work of Chuck DeGroat at Western Seminary
Explore the Soul Care Institute
The work of Michael Gurian
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Kyle Idleman Takes Every Thought Captive
Senior pastor and bestselling author Kyle Idleman joins Steve Cuss to explore the mental battles we all face—and how to overcome them. Using insights from his latest book, Every Thought Captive, Kyle explains the powerful connection between brain science, biblical truth, and emotional health. Together, Steve and Kyle offer ways to break toxic thought patterns and rewire your mindset for spiritual and mental transformation. If you're struggling with anxiety, offense, or negative talk, this episode delivers practical tools to react well.
Resources mentioned in this episode include:
Kyle Idleman’s Website
Kyle Idleman’s Every Thought Captive: Calm the Mental Chaos That Keeps You Stuck, Drains Your Hope, and Holds You Back
All books by Kyle Idleman
Explore Southeast Christian Church
Bob Russell Ministries
Dave Stone’s The Ascent Leader
Anger, Grief, and C.S. Lewis
2 Corinthians 12:9-10
Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane - Matthew 26:36-46 (ESV)
How Do I Take My Thoughts Captive?
Galatians 6:2-5 (NLT)
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Chuck DeGroat and The Crisis of Integrity in Church Leadership
What happens when character formation breaks down in church leadership? Steve Cuss and psychologist-theologian Chuck DeGroat work through the hidden dynamics behind pastoral burnout, narcissism, and the slow erosion of integrity. They explore how unexamined coping mechanisms shape identity, why church boards often miss red flags, and what it really takes to create a culture of safety and true accountability. Steve and Chuck offer tools for healthier leadership—inside and outside the church.
Resources mentioned in this episode include:
The work of Chuck DeGroat at Western Seminary
Explore the Soul Care Institute
The work of Michael Gurian
Chuck DeGroat’s When Narcissism Comes to Church: Healing Your Community From Emotional and Spiritual Abuse
Chuck DeGroat’s Wholeheartedness: Busyness, Exhaustion, and Healing the Divided Self
Chuck DeGroat’s Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself--and to God--When You're Wounded, Weary, and Wandering
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Jen Ripley, Ph.D.: Supporting Mental Health Without Sacrificing Your Well Being
How can we walk with people through a crisis without burning out?
Psychologist and professor Dr. Jen Ripley joins Steve to offer a practical guide for churches supporting people facing grief, trauma, and emotional distress. From setting boundaries to building strong community networks, Jen extends clear, compassionate wisdom for both pastors and lay leaders. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to care well—without losing themselves in the process.
Resources mentioned in this episode include:
Charis Institute
Regent University School of Psychology and Counseling
The Church Cares
Ministering to Families in Crisis
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From Christianity Today, Being Human with Steve Cuss is Christian counseling in podcast form. Steve Cuss, a former trauma and hospice chaplain, pastor, and leadership coach, guides listeners with a gospel-informed journey of discovery into the world of emotional health: everything from anxiety and reactivity, to triangulation, overfunctioning, and the Enneagram.
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